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10月19日 As it once has beenI went with my club friends to the retirement house on jinglian road Saturday afternoon. I stuffed my backpack with cookies and candies that I thought the aged would probably like. But it turns out that what they really want is not material satisfaction but simply a listener to talk away their loneliness and about their life---everyone there is a living history, from which we were educated, touched, and tranquilized.
The granny I chatted with is 87 years old. Some 50 years ago, her husband, a general once in the Kuo-ming party was exiled to Taiwan, and hence they had been separated by the political distance for half a century. She kept this a secret to herself and raised their son and daughter alone. She waited until the day of reconcile when her husband came back, grey haired. It's a story of optimism and endurance.
I also visited a couple of painters, who sat silent in the sunset, face-to-face. The devotion is in the air that words seem unnecessary and no one wanted to distract them. They invited us to tea and played the music of Bandari. It's a story of aging gracefully.
I also listened with patience, well, to be exact, with pretended patience, to a 85-year-old lady telling me again and again that her father's factory had been burned down twice some 70 years ago, and that her mom and dad would come back soon from work to have supper with her. Her illusions betrayed her mental disorders, Alzheimer I guess. What made me feel gloomy was the fact that her soul is straying back while her body is still alive, heading for the day of Final Judge. But I was soon relieved because she looked physically healthy and mentally carefree.
What really distressed me was the sight of some disabled and deformed old bodies lying motionless in bed, staring up for nothing. And it occurred to me suddenly that everyone will have to let go everything eventually, power, health, fame, and life. What we care today may not worth the care, and what we fuss about may not worth the fuss. We are mortals,aren't we?
I finally took a skinny granny in the wheel chair around the small garden, who had her left leg cut last year for thanatosis.It now has been a luxury for her to go out for fresh air and sunlight, which most of us may take for granted. Shouldn't we be thankful for the air we can inhale and exhale freely and the sunlight that caresses us most of the days?
As the dean of the retirement house told us, for many of the aged in the retirement house they may never have the chance to see the real world outside again. They, for one reason or another, were sent here, cared for but also confined in.
It's a place of the last journey of life, and we've just stood by the track, watching the paces of the aged. Though grieve sets in our heart, it's not a bad thing because it makes us love life more than ever. 10月11日 非常korean今儿杨叔叔带我去吃烧烤,在虹泉路韩国人聚集区,名叫“本家新村”,非常正宗,让我小饕了一番。
只点了炭火烤肉,烤八爪鱼,炒粉丝,和大酱汤,却上来摆了满满一桌子,我傻乎乎地兴奋了一场:“哇,白送了好多菜哦!”其实,还不是出在羊身上的羊毛,笨。配套“送”了好多生蔬菜和泡菜,冰镇酸菜汤开胃可口,那装蔬菜的容器长得横跨桌子,列满了生菜,高丽菜,黄芽菜,白菜,苋菜,海带,萝卜片,葱,辣椒,竟然连青菜都有。那烤肉真是一绝,调味出众,香嫩香嫩的,我用生蔬菜叶,放几片泡菜,裹上一小块肉,一包,好玩,好吃。我算是当了一回兔仔,把从来没生吃过的苋菜,葱和青菜都放在嘴里嚼得吉嘎吉嘎,那味儿还真“菜”,纯粹为了感受一下,凭兴致咽了下去。我努力吃得脖子都一伸一伸的了,还是剩了好多蔬菜,好可惜的。最后送了一杯米汁,也没喝过的样子,我好奇得灌了下去,饱到喉咙了,吃到极致了。
点评:口味很正,绝对健康,烤肉加白菜是绝配,白菜可降火,再加上吃了一堆杂七杂八的生菜,我一点都不担心痘痘会在脸上开花。
Yummy,下次再去。 10月1日 Cycle of lifeIt’s an exotically happy experience to see and hug my classmates’ newborn babies.
I visited my best friends in junior school today, who have recently given birth to the little piglets, so- called because I guess this is the more than appropriate way I’d like to call them, such adorable angels.
They both wide opened their eyes and boldly observed me, the stranger, with a curious and pure look. Sometimes they buried their faces in their mama’s shoulder, shy and timid. And for a while they again turned their faces to me and looked into my eyes, and if they charmingly smiled at me, I, at the very moment, was electrolyzed, nearly, though in the sense of chemistry, it’s horrible to be electrolyzed. I tried to hold them in arms with the help from their mama, but I find it’s hard to control my muscles for I was afraid to cause them pain or otherwise drop them down. When they fell asleep, they made me feel jealous for their heart-and-soul sleep, care-free and snoring.
You know, it’s quite a special feeling when you see the offsprings of your friends. Exactly 14 years ago we began our life-long friendship, which we all hope to be, as junior school classmates, and 14 fourteen years later, the new generation booms, and in the foreseeable future, another 14 years later, the newborns will definitely grow to the same age for the junior schooling, as we did 14 years ago. This is the feeling I’ve never ever had before. Isn’t it the cycle of life?
It occurred to me the famous lines in Forrest Gump: “Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're going to get." Just for the unpredictability of life, we are all willing to experience it, whether sweet or bitter, we never lose hope for the next piece of “chocolate”, which is enticing and beckoning ahead. Only if we taste it, can we really own it, and enjoy it.
In the afternoon, I went with my friend,ZCX, to the Rainbow Shopping Center. I bought a fanciful scarlet headband, which gives me a totally different style. I was in an exceptionally effervescent mood after I wrapped it around my head. Jesus! What a brisk day! |
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